You have to look for a school where you will be able to find what you want, without exposing yourself and your religious commitment to danger and things that may lead to your doom, even if that means that you have to study without attending the school (e. If that is not possible, and no school in your country is free of mixing, then you must adhere to the Islamic teachings of lowering the gaze, and not getting carried away when talking to women.May Allah help us and you to obey Him, and help us to avoid temptation both visible and hidden.
I dont mean pleasuring my self or masterbating, I think of it in the moment and it happens.
I cant stop it because a lot of girls in my school dress semi naked or very open. I just think of sexual things for a little then look away and think of something else. Do I lose ghusl when I see a picture of somebody naked?
So do I lose ghusl if I just see the girls butt and think sexual things? I know it's haram to think of the girl sexually but I don't do anything further than think about it. I don't do anything, like masterbating or Anything, I definitely don't do that because its a HUGE sin.
I don't talk to the girl, touch the girl, masterbate to the girls picture or anything. I try to look away and it works but sometimes I think of the girl sexually.
Most times I try to look away but sometimes it doesn't work and I think of the girl 2. But I don't masterbate or pleasure myself, Praise be to Allah.
Firstly: What you have mentioned about widespread temptation because of free mixing is something shameful.How often has free mixing between the sexes (men and women) in educational establishments, workplaces or elsewhere, been the cause of temptation and widespread evil!The one who never spoke on the basis of his own whims and desires (i.e., the Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) spoke the truth when he said: “I have not left behind me any fitnah (trial) that is more harmful to men than woman.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5096) and Muslim (2740).For more information, please see the answer to question no.33651 You should keep far away from fitnah (trial or temptation).If you stay in this mixed school, there is the fear that this may lead to bad consequences, for the one who grazes his flocks around a sanctuary will soon transgress upon it.