You didn't grow up wanting to be a copywriter, so your personality doesn't shine. Finding a date or a mate goes down a notch or two on the totem pole. You really don't want to work that hard when you get home. He wrote a novel with over 50 sentences to introduce himself.Chances are Mike never reads the profiles of the pretty faces he views.
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Author, Online Dating and Netiquette Expert, CEO of Cyber-Dating Expert, Media Personality, and Author of the Bestseller, "The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online." While I don't suggest you should abandon online dating completely, consider taking a break from the process and return refreshed, along with some realistic expectations and digital tools that might increase your chances of success.
Just as athletes get muscle fatigue, daters do get online dating fatigue.
I also compare the Internet dating process to a real estate transaction.
Sometimes a listing gets stale and needs a new agent, new photos, and needs to have their listing come back on the market new and fresh. You go to the gym three times a week, meet your friends for drinks twice a week, and spend an hour a day logging on to your online dating account to view photos of eligible singles. You wonder if they had an inactive profile where they couldn't read your email, or were testing the waters with a few others and would consider you for the future. You know you're smart, witty, and have that great sense of humor everyone advertises that they're looking for.
You handpick 10 men or women to write to and take the time to personalize the subject line. You diligently send emails more often than not, and still wake up to an empty inbox. Yet you find it hard to write an introduction email that will be catchy and stand out. Take for example *Mike (name changed), who has been sending the same 770 word count email about himself for four years to women promising a lifetime of happiness.