Let me warn you however, that if you start dating and go into a relationship with the mindset and intentions of just demanding and receiving things without willing to offer anything of the same quality or value in return, you are setting yourself up for failure!
” To tell you the truth, I was not even interested in dating at the time, because I was too busy working on building one of my businesses and I had to stay focused and not allow myself to get distracted. About one week later after I accepted to be introduced to this young man, my mother and I went over to her friend’s house for dinner where she introduced me to her friend and her friend’s 19 year old son.To make this long story very short and get to the point, let me just tell you that I ended up being in a serious relationship with this young man for about 9 months, and when I broke up with him because he was controlling and possessive and I couldn’t take it anymore, he started stalking me! I had to get a restraining order and move to another city!Now that I think back about this particular experience, there where so many RED FLAGS right from the very start that I didn’t see or even knew existed!But something you must learn to do if you ever want to be successful at dating, finding a healthy stable meaningful relationship or doing anything else successfully, is not to only learn and grow from your own personal experiences, but also to perform your own QUALITY research on the subject to learn from someone else’s experience and insight and analyze the information yourself to make sure it makes sense.For example, I wouldn’t recommend you ask for advice on how to have a healthy happy and peaceful relationship from your next door neighbors that fight with each other all the time and call the police on each other every other weekend.
On the other hand, something else you could do if you do not want to bother doing all of the work yourself to find your special someone, is to hire local professionals from a “Dating Agency” to set you up with quality dates that they screen for you to make sure you and the other person are a great match based on many different characteristics.But, the down side to that is that this is a very expensive thing to do, and there’s no guarantee that you will find your special someone, or that if you do find someone special, that the relationship will last very long, thus placing you back in square one once again.Let me tell you, that if you are ready and are looking for a healthy stable meaningful relationship, today is your lucky day because the following information I’m about to give you will increase your chances of finding one from whatever your chances are now, to 97%! It’s only logical that when you jump in to do something that you don’t know anything about, or know very little about, or your mother or anybody else gave you unwise and uninformed advice about, and you don’t have a plan or a strategy along with the knowledge you need to even get started, you are vulnerable and defenseless for very bad things to happen to you and you won’t even see them coming because you are clueless and don’t know what you are doing.But also, let me tell you that if you are not ready for a healthy stable meaningful relationship yet, this information is going to help you prepare for one, therefore, today is your lucky day as well! and now that I think about it, when it comes to everything and anything in life in general, is “Good things happen to those who do their research and use the knowledge they gain to make good things happen to themselves”!!!!!! Let me tell you a little personal story as an example.....After going out into the dating world myself, doing research by reading relationship books by relationship experts, and having ALL types of different experiences, bad, good, weird, creepy, disturbing, etc….. When I was 18 years old, I still used to listen to my mother’s advice without questioning it or thinking about it…..Of course our parents love us, and have the best intentions when they give us advice, but what if they themselves are not informed or educated on the subject and they just don’t know any better?