I am 52, attractive, healthy, well educated, professional, stable and offer someone a lot.For me the age difference is barely acceptable but I decided to meet her from a pool of many because I simply liked here the best.Now that I am home I can say that I am very torn and I hate the thought of being scammed.
She explained that it was part of dating in Ukraine and that Ukrainian women often want to know that the man will support her needs and wants.I returned home feeling very bad that I either do not understand basic human nature (desire for intimacy) and the Ukrainian culture (maybe it is not for me).Or, maybe I was used for fun and gifts by this girl and her Interpreter. In the end I spent a lot of time and money and feel we are compatible and many ways EXCEPT for romance and money. She wants to continue getting to know me and says she wants me as her husband. Her mother was nice but later said our age difference was too great.She said she thought we were compatible and she was interested in me as your friend, lover and husband.She complimented me many times on my appearance, style of dress and more. I discussed her reluctance for kissing, touching and being alone and she said she needed time.
I explained that affection and romance were very important to me as discussed earlier in email and chat.The second thing that bothered me was her expectation that I "win" her heart by spending time and money on her with entertainment, going to the spa, many gifts not only for her but also for her sister and parents.I corresponded and talked with a 28 year old Ukrainian girl about marriage and family.We seemed highly compatible and we just spent 17 days together in Crimea.During this period everything went well except for two things. She was not comfortable holding hands in public and kissing in public the entire trip. She gave me simple thank you kisses after I purchased something.There was never a passionate kiss or any private time or intimacy the entire trip.