This is why I keep saying to everyone that they need to get their stories straight and lie like absolute motherfuckers to them if its purely notch count they are after. Go there without doing your homework, acting like a tight arsed backpacker or thinking the women are all going to be DTF just because they enjoy sex is only going to lead to frustration.
Ukraine is a different planet from anything else I’ve experienced, hardly anyone speaks english so you will need to brush up on your russian if you stay in the west, or your ukrainian if you go to the east [editor note: he has this reversed]. The Quality of the girls in Kiev seemed to be on some queer polar bell curve, they were either slavic with hairy faces or model good looking. Go see the burried monks, it’s a unesco world heritage site.
Kiev has a great metro system, marshrutkas are cheap and regular. The accomadation was not as cheap as I’d hoped in the Ukraine, and there isn’t really any set strip which was a pain.
I will present some of them and the answers usually given. If you answer I came to get girls you are immediately disqualified. I really dont know what people expect from the Ukraine either.If you answer I am a professional searching for business opportunities,interested in buying real estate,trying to open a shop or franchise etc you are in to be considered a liar. If you answer I came for a week she may decide you are not material for LTR. Are you not eligible to get a wife in your country or are you irresponsible? The answer is sth along the lines of unluckiness I did not happen to meet sb special so she will question whether you are social and cannot find girls through social circles. Like most FSU countries, its only now starting to drag itself out of the dirt.So carefully choose one reason why you are in Ukraine. Tourist can mean sex tourist for them especially if you happen to be in a city flood by sex tourists or in a city with absolutely no tourist attraction. If you answer I came to stay for long(student etc) she will suspect you are a liar. If you answer girls in my country suck you may appear as a sociopath or low value who cannot get a decent gf in his country. The people may not look it, but the vast majority are actually quite poor by western standards and life is a daily struggle for most of them.So you have to think of a clear answer before to this question. Or you may appear that you have high selection criteria so she is likely to be excluded as well. They may look first world, but they are far from it.From my experience it is usually better to tell the truth but promise to come back soon to show that you are a frequent traveller. Or that you have a problem in character or a secret disadvantage that puts off girls. The women themselves dont have time to waste either.
If she asks why do you come here often say that you have visited most European countries and Ukraine is your favourite you like the architecture and nature. If you answer girls in my coutry are good she will ask then why do you not have a wife or girlfriend. They are over the hill at 25 and if they are unmarried as they move into their late 20’s they are really in quite a bit bit of trouble.
Its over if they are in their 30’s for the most part.
Now when they struggle like they do, it means nothing more than financial instability and loneliness for them as they get older.
Throw into the mix a culture that believes and values traditional gender roles, and yes, the women are serious.
They dont have time to waste on men who are not potential husbands.
They dont have any safety nets and their safety net is their family and their husband.