The last guy I was involved me, he said awhile ago he wanted to go out with me and wanted something long term but recently he told me he indicated he only wants to only be an f***buddy type of relationship.
It seems every guy I have involved with are just game players or just have issues. There are decent ones out there, just got to keep looking. One girl may cheat on him, use him for money, be a deadweight, too sex crazed, plain crazy, and the list goes on and on. But hey on the bright side, you've already dated these jerks so you can cross them off your list. You're a few steps closer to finding your Mr Right.
Finding a good person is hard no matter which sex you try to date.
I have tried to be with women and my exwife left me for my best friend, I tried dating a guy and well the dude treated me poorly and then left me as soon as his vacation was over and he found a new lay back home.
The only thing one can do is try to keep your head up and know what you want out of a relationship.
Stick to those standards and realize that you will in time find someone in time.
There are good guys out there look the same as you are but its just hard to run into each other at the right time in your lives. __________________ "There is a beast in man that needs to be exercised, not exorcised." Anton Szandor La Vey I swear by my life and my love of it that I will never live for the sake of another man, nor ask another man to live for mine.Took me 5 years since I came out to myself before I finally found the right guy (well...here's hoping lol) and I went through several frogs, just give yourself time, you'll find him.It could take another year, or 10, who knows, but I'm sure you'll find him. Strength is not defined by physical capacity, but by indomitable will. Most of the people on online sites are just horny and want to hook up or do things on webcam with you - that or they're crazy : P My advice would be to wait it out and meet someone in real life - that way you get a GOOD impression of them rather than what they say they are via the internet.__________________ "Is there some reason my coffee isn't here? ~ Mahatma Gandhi Procrastination is like masturbation, in the end you just wind up screwing yourself. People can be very deceiving when you have no way of fact checking what they say.the last ones were not from gay bars or clubs but from internet sites. The latest one was after me for 6 mths and originally he was much more into me than him. Ithe last ones were not from gay bars or clubs but from internet sites. The latest one was after me for 6 mths and originally he was much more into me than him. With a background in Psychology, Lemarc Thomas runs exclusive matchmaking agency Seventy Thirty.