This article is written by Christina Hart and is part of our “From Her” series. If I’m ever interested in a guy, I usually have to approach him. Most men I know tell me that it’s actually because they’re intimidated (gasp! So put on your big boy boxers (or briefs) and go up to her already. Christina is very attractive girl with a lot of experience in the dating world. If you find yourself attracted to a woman, and she glances at you, chances are she is attracted to you too and wants you to approach her. She is here to share her knowledge to help men who struggle approaching good looking girls.
Even the homeless people who are asking for money on the street are treated the same way.People who walk by them seem to be far more generous to those who do something – dancing, singing, playing an instrument on the street – than the ones that simply sitting with their hand out or coming up to people and asking for money.The same exact principle applies to sex and attraction. A woman is not going to sleep with a guy because she feels sorry for him or because she wants to “help” him like it might be suggested in some cheesy high school movies, where the nerdiest guy, who nobody likes and nobody talks to, so often ends up being with and having sex with the the hottest and the most popular girl in class after she dumps that football player boyfriend of hers.is somewhat of a common term referring to a situation where the girl does a favor to a guy by sleeping with him out of pity for his lack of popularity among women or to reward him for all the efforts he put into pursuing her even though she isn’t all that into him, this almost never happens in real life – a woman in her right mind is not going to sleep with a guy out of some kind of charity, if she is not attracted to him.When it comes to giving and taking, dating/sex and business are very much alike.
They are both somewhat cruel and unforgiving to those who don’t deserve it and who don’t deliver “value” to the other side. You purchase products and services that are of high quality for a fair price from an establishment that you believe you can rely and trust when it comes to customer service and where you enjoy shopping.Think about business and your behavior as a consumer – do you ever buy anything from a certain store because you feel sorry that the store doesn’t do very well and you would like to help by contributing to their bottom line? Do you ever go out to eat at a restaurant that you don’t like just because it’s not doing very well, and you just want to support it and prevent it from shutting down? You may even stand in line to get what you want (i.e.A woman will only be attracted to and sleep with a guy because she likes him for some reason, and she to do it herself.A guy who is in so many ways asking a woman to sleep with him is surely on the road to being unattractive or even repelling to that girl, just like an overly aggressive marketer who is trying to “push” a product would be to most, if not, potential buyers.So, what is the point of the above and what does it say to you?This simple means that the right way to attract a woman for dating, sex, or a long-term relationship, is by becoming more attractive and more desirable because of who you are as a man and as a person; not by asking them to be with you or begging them to want you to somehow hope that if you try long enough and hard enough, she will show some kind of mercy and will decide to bestow upon you the kindness of her being with you.