Maybe I will try contacting his office again, given how increasingly horrible things have become since that first contact.
One big question I have is how likely is mediation with a BP likely to actually work?
I thought it was probably going to be nearly impossible because of what she is like, but maybe I am wrong?
Frankly I wish I could video record my entire life to defend against her.1796754 (current) + 1313541 (archived) posts in 167865 (current) + 125101 (archived) topics by 54395 (active) + 24019 (inactive) members.Latest Member: confused mum Latest Post: "Re: Darling I miss you a..." ( August 17, 2016, PM ) View the most recent posts on the forum. She would break up with me and then want to get back together—sometimes in the same day. Pain, anger, confusion, never knowing how I’m gonna feel from one minute to the next. When we first began dating, my borderline girlfriend told me I was the very first guy who really loved her for what she was. After a few months, she started criticizing me and everything I did was wrong.
By the time the phone rang I had decided to get rid of her before she could get rid of me. I felt so ridiculous, but the pain, the fear, and the gut-wrenching poker in my gut were very real.
Wanting to die but not being able to kill myself because I’d feel too much guilt for those I’d hurt, and then feeling angry about that so I cut myself or take an overdose to make all the feelings go away. One night I called my girlfriend and she said she would call me back because she was watching TV. It hurt so bad because the day before, I had started to believe that she really loved me.
The gentleman writing in to the blog is experiencing the surreal and chaotic behaviors of a spouse conducting a distortion campaign against him.
His questions may have some resonance with some of you.
_____________________ " I bought William Eddy's book on divorces and have read most of it.
I also talked with Michael Roe (who wrote the foreword to the book), but he doesn't practice in San Diego, -- he's in Illinois, but was very helpful to me in at least getting me to understand what I'm up against.