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As the writer Deborah Moggach has said, “most of us are lonely, and we all want the same thing.” To meet another person, that is.

She looked desperate – sad, unhappy and totally out of place. I then got ordered way-too much wine and cried in to my napkin, surrounded by couples and a table full of hen-night woman who were having a much better time that I was.As she revealed to her date, she hadn’t been single since she was 14 and found the whole thing utterly terrifying. ” the waitress asked me the first night I stayed in a hotel. It is hard to be single, especially if, like Turner, you haven’t spent much of your adult life fending for yourself.Here is a woman – twice married – who never thought she’d end up telling a man she had never met before how she cried when, post-divorce, she had to go on holiday alone for the first time. There is not a singleton alive who hasn’t had moments when they wished they were not single. I was single for four years after my marriage broke up and it was like learning a new language.I remember going to Lyme Regis on my own for the first time after getting divorced from my husband of 13 years. You go to parties alone, you sit at dinner on your own, you buy two tickets for the theatre and rack your brains to find someone to go with you.Conversation flowed as easily as the wine and it seemed the perfect first date.

On the second date, he took her to a swingers party.“I was so desperate to meet someone, I almost went along with it,” she says. I honestly think I would have dated anyone really.” • Revealed: the perfect recipe for a first date Most women I know who have started dating after divorce have felt that way at some point or another.Rather stupidly I thought revisiting a place I had been to with my ex would be cathartic. There’s no-one to gossip with after a night out; no one to steer you out the door when it’s time to leave a party.Valentine’s Day is horrible, Christmas is painful, birthdays can make even the strongest-hearted weak with pain.But, if you want to meet someone after a break you, you have to date and some are better than others.One friend of mine, Jo, tells of the man who took her out for dinner.